Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Heritage Months In General And Native American History Month In Particular

There have been times over the years when I have made an attempt to observe some heritage months as a way of trying to offer my feeble support to various groups. And then there were times when I'd forget about it, because I don't always stay as on task as I'd like to. Recently I learned that we're halfway through Native American Heritage Month. I'm behind on this, and all I can do is pass on this reading list of adult books for Native American Heritage Month from Flyleaf Books

Now I recognize that "celebrating" heritage months has a virtue signaling aspect to it. Look at me! I'm doing good by supporting marginalized writers and people! Oops! I just snapped my arm patting myself on the back!

At the same time, though, when times are...strange, shall we say...publicizing the work of groups whose work didn't always get much attention in the past is something positive we can do. It doesn't involve name calling or ranting, which I've never seen doing anything for anybody. 

Additionally, heritage months are a sort of temporal landmark. They are set-aside times, during which  we can focus on one kind of reading we may not have had opportunities to do in the past, simply because there are so many books out there.

So next year I'm going to have an objective under my community building goal to observe a number of heritage months. It's already in my bullet journal for next year. I'm already collecting titles. I will not be restricting myself to history but any kind of writing connected to the heritage month involved. One year I read this great zombie story for Black History Month. I cannot deny myself that sort of thing.

Also, Francophonie Month is not a heritage month in this country, but, damn it, this is Gail Gauthier's blog, and we are observing it here. Comprenez-vous?


Tuesday, November 19, 2024

Time Management Tuesday: Slow Writing and Privilege

Here we are on Week 3 of my slow writing arc.

Remember Week 1  Slow Writing In November Instead Of NaNoWriMo?

And Week 2  Week Two Of Slow Writing? That really should have had a more descriptive title, since it deals with trying to pin down what slow writing is. But Zen tells me not to dwell on the past.

So we are moving  on to Week 3, where we admit that slow writing is going to be problematic for some people, particularly those who need to generate income. To do so, I'm going to refer you to A Manifesto for Slow Writing  by John Fox at BookFox

I want to put out there that I have trouble with manifestos. They are way too doctrinaire for my tastes. It's not that I'm such a nonconforming rebel. But I can't even tolerate 90 percent of writing prompts I see, because eh, I don't want to write about that stuff. So, sure enough, I can't fall into step with some of this particular manifesto. But the first two items are definitely worth some thought. Only one of which I will address today. Because, as I said last week, I practice slow writing here by writing about small aspects of a whole, rather than force feeding everything into one long piece, overwhelming for both you and me.

Those Who Don't Have the Option of Actively Resisting

Fox says in his manifesto, "Resist the commercial pressure to pump out manuscripts at breakneck speed." He then goes on to discuss Marilynne Robinson who went twenty years between publishing two well-known books. I'm not sure that that's a good model, because most writers at some point accept that they aren't Marilynne Robinson. Fox ends this part with "Everything in the writing industry pushes the writer forward at a quicker and quicker pace, and this machinery must be actively resisted." Manifesto indeed!

This is a cry-to-arms that can only be answered by those writers who can resist because they are privileged enough either to be making decent money from their work or to not need income from it.  All the other writers are dependent on the machinery to make whatever they can. Self-published writers, who aren't dependent on the writing industry, are in an even worse spot as far as being able to choose slow writing is concerned.

Self-published Book Writers and Slow Writing

A few decades ago, it wasn't unusual to read about self-published writers who were trying to pump out short novels multiple times a year. They did this because, without access to the book distribution avenues traditionally published authors had, they couldn't sell very many copies of any particular title. Many of them also weren't paying for editing, design, or professional cover illustration, the lack of which could have hampered sales as well. Since they couldn't sell many copies of any one particular title, they tried to have multiple titles available. Sales for each book multiplied by the number of books=trying to get a decent income.

I don't read about that much anymore, since the self-publishing world learned that in order to compete with traditionally published books, self-published writers would have to seek out and pay for editors, design people, illustrators, and even marketing...all the things traditionally published writers got automatically through their traditional publishers. You could say that having to do that slowed these writers down. But it was the administrative work of publishing that did it, not "slow writing."

Self-published Short-Form Writers and Slow Writing

Internet platforms like Medium and Substack provide the possibility of generating income for self-published writers of humor, essays, short stories, food writing, travel writing...you name it. They are self-publishing their work right there, though Medium includes publications that act, to some degree depending on which one you're dealing with, as gatekeepers should you want to submit to them. The income generated, though, is small. Sometimes ridiculously small. To date, I've only made fifty-five cents on Dinner at Shirley Farr's House, one of my more sophisticated pieces. (Keep in mind that there is always the possibility that I'll make a few more cents on this somewhere down the line and that if it had been published in most literary journals, I wouldn't have made anything.)

Like the self-published book-length writers in days of old, self-published writers at Medium increase their income by writing a lot. And I mean a lot. There are people there who try to write and publish every day. I know this, because one of the things many people write about is publishing on Medium. One woman wrote an article about the month she published as many stories there as I had in over three years. How-to articles are popular at Medium, especially articles on how to publish on Medium. A particularly interesting one was by a fellow who explained he spent three hours per article, which included Internet research and writing. There have been articles from writers complaining that some editors of publications don't respond the same day they submit. These writers have publishing schedules! 

At Medium you get paid a tiny amount for each reader you attract to a story. You may not have attracted a lot of readers for each piece you published this month, but if you published thirty pieces at a small number of readers per piece, you might be able to get some kind of payday for your effort. Additionally, if you publish a lot, some magic algorithm thing might happen and you could have your work promoted, that could attract followers, if you build up a few thousand followers those people will be seeing your work regularly and if a certain percentage of them read it...income!

Does this kind of rapid writing produce stellar results? Would slowing down maybe enhance things? Let's not go there.

My point, as I did state at the beginning, is that slow writing, which appears to be mainly a lifestyle not a true method of working, is going to be a hard sell for those writers who really need to sell regularly. 



Friday, November 15, 2024

Friday Done List

 Goal 1. Adult Short Stories, Essays, and Humor

  • Submitted a short story and humor piece, both to nonMedium publications.
  • Worked on a humor piece.
  • Was disappointed that I couldn't find some material I had sent myself to use in another humor piece. I mention this, because I spent some time looking for it this afternoon.

Goal 3. Community Building/Marketing/Branding 

  • Wrote three blog posts. Four counting this one.
  • Promoted a couple of blog posts.
  • Signed up for a social media Zoom workshop I knew I couldn't attend, but the organization is supposed to provide a recording for a month. Yeah, that hasn't appeared. I am missing Off Campus Writers' Workshop, which is stellar with its Zoom administration.
  • Having to cool my heals over that social media workshop is disappointing, because I'm considering joining either BlueSky or Instagram. I'm not in a hurry to leave Twitter, but it has changed dramatically since the election, filled with people angsting over the election or angsting over the number of people leaving Twitter and should they leave, too. The ratio of literary messaging to noise is way down. The place may not be a good use of time now.


Thursday, November 14, 2024

Some Annotated Reading November 14

 Books

I did finish one book that will remain nameless, because I had to skim the second half to get through it. It
was just so slow. Normally I wouldn't mention it here, but I liked the book's concept very much. It was an adult book about a former child detective who is being drawn into an adult case. We had her child scooby as adults there...a sibling...characters that would have appeared in a child detective book but grown up now. Perhaps that's why it was so slow. So much went into developing that aspect of the book that the mystery plot, which is what moves a story along, took second place. We might be talking a story in which the elements are not in balance. 

Short Form

Heavy Snow Han Kang in The New Yorker You can't read this without a subscription, but if you can get hold of the magazine it's in (Nov. 10), it is quite an experience. Truly we're talking a something-happened-to-somebody situation, which was L. Rust Hills' definition of story. Assuming anyone remembers him. He wrote a good book about writing, though good luck trying to find much about it or him.

The Countess of Warwick: A Society Cyclist by Sheila Hanlon at Sheila Hanlon/Historian/Women's Cycling Yes, I am still reading about women cycling in the nineteenth century.

DNA Analysis Upends Long-held Assumptions About Pompeii Victims' Final Moments by Ashley Strickland at CNN Was I a really morbid kid, because I liked reading about Pompeii? Yeah, I think I was.

Humor

Sure, I Voted For Someone Whose Policies Might Kill You, But Now's The Time To Put Aside Our Differences by Lisa Borders at McSweeney's. "I personally think it's awesome that my house in Central Massachusetts might be waterfront property sooner rather than later." 

How To Write A Book That Nicole Kidman Will Turn Into A Limited Series by Tom Smyth at McSweeney's. Hey, I liked The Perfect Couple. Kidman played a writer who we actually see working. A lot.

Wednesday, November 13, 2024

2024 Malka Penn Awards Announced

The University of Connecticut's Malka Penn Awards for 2024 have been announced. The award "honors outstanding children's books that explore important human rights issues." This year there are two winners, five honor books, and a special recognition title.

One of the positive things I think awards do is bring books to readers' attention that they might not otherwise have heard of. In this case, one of the honor books particularly interests me.

The Bodyguard Unit: Edith Garrud, Women's Suffrage, and Jujitsu by Clement Xavier, Lisa Lugrin, and Albertine Ralenti speaks to a number of my interests--women's history, early twentieth century history, and martial arts. I'll be looking for it.

Tuesday, November 12, 2024

Time Management Tuesday: Week Two Of Slow Writing

So here we are with Week 2 of my November Time Management Tuesday slow writing arc in which I, once again, ask, Can we be more productive by slowing down?

What is Slow Writing?

Well, there's a question or you.

First off, slow writing can refer to a method of teaching writing to children. I don't teach writing, so I'm not going to comment on this, other than to say this is not what we're talking about.

When looking for slow writing information on-line, you will come across material on how slow writers can speed up. We're not interested in that. 

What we're talking about here is related--somehow--to other slow movements, particularly slow work.

My Favorite Recent Reading on Slow Writing

The best piece I found on slow writing this month comes from Nicole Gulotta's The Art of Slow Writing: Pacing Yourself in the Digital Age. Gulotta describes slow writing as not so much about reducing your speed as it is about reducing your scope. It's a lifestyle. You mindfully integrate your writing life into your personal life, paying attention to how you can work during different stages of your life. I'm probably experiencing confirmation bias, since what she's talking about is very similar to the situational time management I've been writing about here for more than ten years.

Gulotta also mentions Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown, which I did an arc on a couple of years ago, connecting his thoughts to writing.

I definitely have a specific writing lifestyle these days, and it probably does relate very much to slow writing. But before I get into that, next week I'm going to cover some slow writing conflicts.

What I Just Did There Was, I Believe, An Example Of Slow Writing And How It Can Benefit Readers


In Nicole Gullotta's piece on slow writing, she talks about it involving life overall, but not specific kinds of writing. 

I'm going to suggest that a specific way of practicing slow writing is to write and present a larger concept piece in smaller segments. By which I mean we don't just break writing something into smaller tasks, then put it altogether and present it, as in a novel or a dissertation. I mean we break something into smaller, complete types of writing that make sense of one aspect of an overall subject and present/publish them.

So today, I am only writing about what Nicole Gulotta has to say in The Art of Slow Writing instead of writing this much and then going on with something that's going to be quite contradictory. I also want to write about privilege in relation to slow writing. I might go on to the connection between blogging and slow writing. Whatever I do, I'll do in separate pieces of writing. 

This slows down the process for me. It makes it less of an ordeal to write, but also makes it possible for me to be much clearer and more thoughtful about everything I write on this subject. I'm not racing to get the equivalent of a magazine cover story written and published today.

But it will also slow down the reading experience, which I think is going to be a good thing, too. Readers will be handling one concept at a time, instead of multiple ones.

Slow writing may have something for everyone.  


Friday, November 08, 2024

Friday Done List

It doesn't seem as if I've done as much this week, yet actually having work submitted and ready to submit seems more significant than weeks when I've done more but didn't do any submissions or have work ready to submit.

Goal 1. Adult Short Stories, Essays, and Humor

  • Submitted a short story that had been published at a journal that no longer exists to another journal that publishes reprints.
  • Finished two short pieces
  • Created a photo illustration for the eating piece
  • Submitted the eating piece this morning
  • The humor piece should be ready to go the beginning of next week, after I finish obsessing over it.

Goal 3. Community Building/Marketing/Branding

  • Did two blog posts
  • Promoted both of them on Twitter 
  • Did a little research on Instagram
  • Am about to sign up for a SCBWI Zoom workshop on social media
 

Thursday, November 07, 2024

Some Annotated Reading November 7


Books

Well, I've been reading two books but then I had an unexpected opportunity to go to my favorite library with my list and a bag.

Yeah, I was overwhelmed for a moment. But the way to take on a task like this is to just read one book at a time. Though, actually, I'm reading two. That's not counting the two I was reading before, which I own and thus don't have a deadline for finishing them. 

You really have to give some thought to how you're going to approach a situation like this. 



Short Form

Steinbeck mined her research for "The Grapes of Wrath." Then her own Dust Bowl novel was squashed by Iris Jamahl Dunkle at Salon. Dunkle has written a biography of Sanora Babb, the women referred to in the title.

A Spanner of One's Own: Liberation and Mechanics in Maria Ward's "Bicycling for Ladies" 1896 by Sheila Hanlon at Sheila Hanlon/Historian/Women's Cycling I've been feeding an interest in 1890s history, particularly women's history, for many, many months. Why shouldn't you have to hear about it?

John Charrington's Wedding by Edith Nesbit at Project Gutenberg Australia. I'm reading a book about women who pioneered horror and speculative fiction. This is one of the stories and authors referred to. Nicely written, though the ending isn't much of a surprise. It's an older work that has probably been redone in various ways, so seems more familiar than it would have in its own time.

The Tight-knit World of Kamala Harris's Sorority by Jazmine Hughes at The New Yorker. This should still be interesting, if you have a digital subscription and can access it. Though probably not as interesting as it would have been before November 5.

#Girlbosses and the Stupid Idiot Men Who Welcome Them by Jamie Loftus at Paste. Jamie Loftus wrote Raw Dog, which is what led me to look for her shorter work. Her spin makes #girlbosses sound like #tradwives...something that never really existed.

Humor 

Thanks for Stopping to Chat. I'll Just Pretend You're Not Holding a Bag of Shit by Caroline Horwitz at Belladonna Comedy  Anything can be funny. Anything.

Thank You for Coming to My Fred Talk by Steven Ostrowski at The Offing. This is not so much about voice, but attitude. "Or consider this: on some days, there's a one hundred percent chance of rain...and yet...it doesn't rain!" 


Tuesday, November 05, 2024

Time Management Tuesday: Slow Writing In November Instead Of NaNoWriMo?

Another month has begun, this one with a strong temporal landmark attached to it for writers, National Novel Writing Month.  It appears that I started dabbling in NaNoWriMo twenty years ago, though I didn't start dwelling on the subject until 2016. Then I wrote about it quite a bit.

Well, poor old NaNoWriMo has been experiencing some troubles the last couple of years. I thought I'd written about them here a few months ago, but, nope. I will explain to the extent that I can:

  1. NaNoWriMo has forums, which I've never been part of for what that's worth. But an issue arose with how forums were being moderated, particularly forums for young writers
  2. NaNoWriMo is taking a position of neutrality on the use of AI in writing. The...discord...around NaNoWriMo's original statement on the subject came up a couple of months ago

I mention all this because it's November and National Novel Writing Month and we all want to keep up on what's going on in the writing world, non? Also, it leads into an article by Shaunta Grimes on slow writing. 

NaNoWriMo Is Fast, But I Am Slow


I mean, I am seriously slow. So you can understand why I was interested when I saw Shaunta Grimes' The Write Brain article, I'm officially done with NaNoWriMo. Lets start a Slow Writing Movement back in September. 

She's creating a program and community called Book-a-Year Project that involves writing a book over a year, instead of a month. Her plan includes creating a writing practice. There will be mentoring letters and daily links to a poem, an essay, and short story to read. There's a monthly book club. And more.

This sounds fantastic, even though I am shifting toward writing short form work instead of novels. What I particularly like about Grimes' plan is that it actually offers things to do, versus talking about taking care of yourself and smelling the flowers. Both of which, I'd like to point out, take time. I was excited as I read about her article

And then I began to feel overwhelmed. This is too much for me. Because, remember, I am truly slow. I get daily Book Riot emails with lists of ebooks on sale, and I can't keep up with those. There's a monthly subscription involved with the Book-a-Year Project, so I hadn't even gotten involved yet and I, a truly slow person, was feeling pressure because I knew I wasn't going to be able to keep up on something I was paying for.

But I love the idea of slow writing and have written here before about trying to find ways to do slow work. So I am inspired now to do more research on this. November, I feel, is a perfect time to be thinking about doing something new, because maybe I can have a plan in place for me for the new year.

The new year being a temporal landmark and all.

Just in: I had a perhaps serendipitous thing happen today that could impact my slow work studies. I'll let you know for sure next week.


Friday, November 01, 2024

Friday Done List

 Over all, a good week.

Goal 1. Adult Short Stories, Essays, and Humor

  • Started two new pieces! One is humor, the other is about yogurt.
  • Registered for a Zoom workshop I knew I couldn't attend, and watched the recording today. This may become a blog post.

Goal 2. Submit 143 Canterbury Road To Agents

  • I saw on Xitter that an agent who had rejected two of my books was opening again for submissions. So I submitted a third book to her so she could reject it. I don't believe I've ever submitted my children's manuscripts to her, and I see that she represents that, too, so I might submit those sometime in the future for an entire set of rejections. Even though I had all kinds of material ready to go for this submission, because I've submitted it elsewhere, customizing emails and filling in submission forms take time that could have been used for Goal 1. At some point, I have to come to terms with that. Book submissions are very definitely a low priority now. If short form work takes off for me some time in the future, I may just treat book submissions as a waste of time and stop them.

Goal 3. Community Building/Marketing/Branding


Goal 4. 19th Century Novel, which is totally just for fun

  • About all I do on this is read nineteenth century history and pile up links to articles. For the workshop I watched today, I used the prompts I was sent to write from the point of view of the main character. So I now have some new material for that.

Thursday, October 31, 2024

Some Annotated Reading October 31

In the three weeks since my last Annotated Reading post, I started and stopped 3 books (all in one week), read one, and am now reading two. I have a number of interests I want to read about and need to
create some kind of organized plan to do so. During the time I was reading Raw Dog, I focused on reading about food. Because Raw Dog is about hot dogs, which is food.

Food Reading

Falling for Chai--Crafting Comfort in Every Sip by Verde Curated Lifestyle at Tastyble. I am only a tea dabbler, but this article made me want to be more. So I bought some chai tea bags. That's about as much as I can expect of myself.

Ruth Reichl: "The delicious revolution" was a distraction from America's food crisis by Mary Elizabeth Williams at Salon. I do just enough food reading to have heard of Ruth Reichl. She sounds amazing in this article. In some far away, disorganized way, I will read more about/by her.

"Cooking saved my life more than once": Chef Einat Admony on her culinary memoir "Taste of Love" by Michael La Corte at Salon. This woman gets a lot more out of cooking than I do.

Don't feel like cooking? Caroline Chambers' new cookbook has you covered" by Joy Saha at Salon. This article has inspired discussion at our house and with some guests over the beginning, which discusses why "this generation" doesn't know how to cook. So far, I haven't met anyone who was taught to cook by their mother, though we cook.

Anxious About Baking? This Is a Great Way to Get Started by Dim Nikov at Tastyble. Speaking of learning to cook, this sounds like a good way to get kids started on baking bread.

Mother's Ruin by Tiffany Hawk at The Smart Set. This is about gin, which is no more about food than the tea article I linked to above. It also includes history, which is a good way to grab me. 

Humor Reading

A Victorian Time Traveler Meets Your Puggle  by Rebecca Turkewitz at The Belladonna Comedy. Not sure if this link will work for you, but this is funny.

Real Adult Horror Isn't That Someone is Coming: It's That No One Is Coming by Kate Brennan at MuddyUm. With pictures.

Next Door Reacts to the Rapture by Jay Martel in The New Yorker. You don't have a prayer of reading this. 

Parent-Teacher Conference by Karen Chee in The New Yorker. Nor this.

Fake Pandemic Introvert vs. Real Pandemic Introvert by Dahlia Garrin Ramirez. 



Tuesday, October 29, 2024

Time Management Tuesday: Specifically Planning What You're Going To Do

It is still ADHD Awareness Month, but instead of reading widely on the subject, I am still focused on J. Russell Ramsay's article Why the ADHD Brain Prioritizes the Less Important Task--And How CBT Improves Prioritization Skills in ADDitude. (Maybe I'm a little hyperfocused?) Today I'm interested in the second part of the article, about improving prioritization skills.

First off, CBT is cognitive behavioral training, which Ramsay simply describes as a type of brain training. So, we've got that out of the way.

The first suggestion Ramsay makes was the one that I found particularly meaningful. He called it "Attach manual, step-by-step descriptions to must-do tasks."  I think this just means specifically break down tasks.

This concept jumped out at me, because just a few days before I read this article, I happened to have a week when I only had an hour here or there to write. One evening I decided I wouldn't just write the next day, I would work on Dinner at Shirley Farr's House. And I wouldn't just work on Shirley Farr, I would begin by moving a section of the piece about my family to the beginning of the essay, instead of beginning with Shirley Farr. I wanted this memoir to be related to my writing about eating. Plus, it was a memoir. It should be about a personal experience involving Shirley Farr, not about Shirley Farr. I suspect someone could write a book about her, but it won't be me.

Knowing what I was specifically going to do before I sat down to work was hugely helpful. It was as if I didn't have to start the job, it was already started. What's more, being able to get that kind of start made it easier to continue. 

Maybe We Could Think in Terms of Goals and Objectives


Okay, that one example of how I had broken down a writing task should not convince anyone that attaching a step-by-step description to writing is a best practice for that job. Because one is not a statistically significant number. But think of a "must-do task" as a goal and the "step-by-step descriptions" as objectives. Now we're talking about something we have experience with.

"Writing tomorrow" is big and overwhelming. Also, morning is a lot of time. Surely, I can use some of that to see what's trending on X and go to Facebook, not just to look at my wall but to check a bunch of my groups to see if something has happened that I've missed. (I belong to many, many Facebook groups.) 

But those of us who are accustomed to working with goals and objectives can see that "writing tomorrow" is the must-do goal we need to do. Of course, we need to assign step-by-step objectives to that goal. 

What am I going to write tomorrow?
  • I'm going to work on Project C
    • I'm going to start with looking at yesterday's work
    • I'm going to work on the section related to _________
    • I'm going to create a voice
    • I'm going to maintain the voice
    • I'm going to shorten the part about__________ 
The point being that if we apply objectives or step-by-step descriptions to "going to write tomorrow," when we sit down to work, we know exactly what we have to, and are going to, do. Yes, that makes work easier. You know what else it does? It gets rid of the anxiety about what we're going to do. What a relief.


A Good Time to Mention Bullet Journals?


It appears that it's been five years since I've mentioned bullet journals here. The official bullet journal website defines bullet journals as a "mindfulness practice designed as a productivity system." I love that. It is so what I want to be me. However, I found the original bullet journal method way too complex for me. I modified the system to meet my needs and continue to do so. Why, I just added a new section to my journal a couple of weeks ago.

I get a lot done with a bullet journal. Though, of course, never as much as I want to. Also, sometimes in order to get a long-standing task done, I have to put it in my bullet journal. But that's okay!

An example of how my simplistic bullet journal works.

Week of Oct. 27th Work Section  (I may add more during the week):
  • Submit scifi story
  • Submit reprint story
  • Plan next writing projects (I could have got more detailed with this, as in "check started work on laptop" and "check journal.") / 
  • Humor/Raw Dog post
  • TMT post (that's this one) 
  • Register for workshop
  • Update website.
Week of Oct. 27th Food Section (I will probably add more during the week. Also, this is usually cooking related.):
  • gf cider doughnuts
  • gf cider biscuits
Each week has additional sections for other aspects of my life. Strike throughs mean a task is done. A slash means I've started it.

My point here is that I think that if you work with some kind of bullet journal system, it seems as if what you're doing is, indeed, attaching "manual, step-by-step descriptions to must-do tasks," as Ramsay describes in his ADDitude article. So you may not be surprised to hear that a few years ago, while doing some reading about bullet journals, I learned that Ryder Carroll, who created the bullet journal system, has ADHD. 

ADDITION: I mentioned a few weeks ago that we have a family member who has recently been diagnosed with ADHD. This is a child I'm talking about. So today I thought I'd take a look see if there's anything about bullet journals/journaling for kids. I'm having a hard time finding something that isn't focused on the idea of "journals" and not "productivity," let alone "mindfulness designed as a productivity system." My gut feeling is these kids don't need to keep records of what they have done or their creativity and personalities. They need help focusing on what they need to do and getting things done. Which is what the original bullet journal is about.

I will keep looking!


Monday, October 28, 2024

A Litfest At An Orchard

For months now, central Connecticut has been awash with group appearances by writers. Many, especially those with children's writers, have been at traditional writer sites like libraries. But then I've been seeing groups doing signings and sales at bars, vineyards, breweries, and other places we don't usually expect to be able to buy a signed copy of a book. However, they are places where people go. Where there are people, there are readers. Those are opportunities for writers, especially self-published writers who don't often see their books in bookstores, to meet and greet and make sales. 

Yesterday I hit a small literary signing held at Dondero Orchards in South Glastonbury, a spot I'd never been to even though it's within a half hour of me. It definitely draws a crowd on Sunday mornings, as you can see, since I thought a picture of the parking lot would be appropriate. 


The first writer I met there was Gerald Augustine, author of Vietnam Beyond.  Before he headed out to Vietnam back in the 60s, his mother told him to take pictures. So he goes off to 'nam with his camera and sends back in excess, I believe he said, of 200 hundred pictures. His book is heavily illustrated. 







My second writer was Sarah Branson the author of the Pirates of New Earth series.  There are adult books in this series, as well as children's books. All set in the same world. I like that idea very much. I have set books in the same towns, but they never made it into print.






Anna James is a contemporary romance writer who was there with her books published by Harlequin, as well as an arc for a book coming out soon.






I met P. Jo Anne Burgh last year after she promoted one of her appearances at a porchfest near me on a Facebook group we both belong to. Her first two books are contemporary romance with a Christmas connection. Check out what she has to say on the subject of book fairs, festivals, and holiday markets. And more of her thoughts on the subject. She's been around these things.




Heidi Rocha is an author and pediatric dental hygienist who writes the Sparkly Smiles Series, books and workbooks on dental hygiene for kids. She did one of the story times yesterday and had kids buzzing around her table while I was talking with her.  





Rick Collins writes a series of mysteries about a New England police chief, and I'm sorry that I was getting to the end of my time at this event and didn't stop to talk to him. 


The same is true of Jack Matthews, the author of  Arte Perdida. Rick and Jack were at the end of the loop of authors I was making my way around, and my conversation, of which we all know I have very little, was petering out. Jack took that picture of Heidi and me. Great picture of me, Jack. I don't usually turn out that well.

I had a lovely hour or so, went home with a couple of books, some postcards and a business card, and material for a blog post. Also, the orchard site left me with a desire to make gluten free cider doughnuts. Which I did.



Sunday, October 27, 2024

Getting Serious About Humor: I'm Done With Wurst For A Long Time

The Thurber Prize folks have announced their semi-finalists for this year's, yes, Thurber Prize for American Humor. It turns out that I've already read one of them, Everyone In My Family Has Killed Someone by Benjamin Stevenson, which I liked, and admired, a great deal. Now I've read another one, Raw Dog: The Naked Truth About Hot Dogs by Jamie Loftus. The book combines two of my interests...humor and eating nonprestige food. I've been a little bit obsessed with it.

Raw dog. An expression with a number of meanings, related to some of kind of risk. Doing something unprepared. I didn't look it up until after I finished reading the book (actually, just now), and now I'm thinking the title...Wow. This could be profound. 

I've read a number of Thurber Prize finalists over the last couple of years, and I'm sure that I've mentioned here before that I find them witty, certainly, but not hugely, wildly funny. I guess this makes a lot of sense, because, as I probably have also mentioned before, I have actually read James Thurber, and, you know, he wasn't hugely, wildly funny. I like the Thurber Prize finalists I've read, which I can't say for a lot of prize books (I'm thinking of you, Booker Prize, which I now avoid). But I don't understand how funny you have to be to be a humor prize winner.

Jamie Loftus is a comedian, writer, and podcaster, and she has a distinctive sense of humor. Raw Dog definitely is a contender for the prize. But the book is a lot. Reading it was an experience.

Superficially, it is about Loftus's hot dog summer, traveling across the U.S. with a boyfriend, a dog, and, I think, a cat in rental cars as she samples hot dogs in various regions of the country. I no longer eat traditional hot dogs, because I avoid smoked meat. But I do eat the occasional bratwurst. When I started reading this book, I went into the freezer where I had a leftover grilled wurst. I heated that puppy up and found a gluten free roll to sort of wrap around it and ate it naked. By the time I was in a grocery store sometime later, while still reading Raw Dog, I just shot by the wurst counter. No, we are not doing that for some time to come. I'm done with dogs for a while.

Loftus went to so many hot dog stands, shops, and wagons and ate so very many hot dogs. This woman ate so much chili on those dogs. And described all those chilis in so much detail. I think that if chili was available, she ate it. And the onions! Good heavens! And relish. Evidently, she'll eat any kind of relish. My digestive system is fragile, and I could feel it failing just reading about what Jamie Loftus ate. It was too much for her digestive system sometimes, too. I know, because she writes about it.

Here's the thing, though, this book isn't just a food and travel story that should be one of those TV shows my husband watches. No, there is a great deal of social commentary here. Real commentary. In a New Yorker article about Loftus, Cat Zhang says that her first job out of college was at the Boston Globe (she was fired) but that she "retains a reporter's allegiance to fact." What she has to say in Raw Dog about things like how the meat industry treats both animals and human workers, gentrification, the pandemic, and Oscar Mayer Wiener Mobile drivers (no joke, they've got some worries) come across as serious and well thought out. And then she gets back to the freaking chili! 

A little digression: Loftus comes from Brockton, Massachusetts where my aunt Esther has lived all my life. I've been to cousin weddings there and a funeral. Honest to God, I had no idea about the city's reputation until another family member went to college in Waltham and tipped me off. Brockton seemed fine to us Gauthiers.

Anyway, I'm feeling about the Thurber Prize the way other people feel about the Oscars and Emmys. I hope one of the two books I've read wins.

Thursday, October 24, 2024

The Story Behind The Story: Some Feminist Humor

Karolina Kaboompics on Pexels
 I am in the midst of a socializing week, which just requires so much of me. Draining. But I can jump in here to tell you that I had still another humor piece published this past Tuesday at Slackjaw. If you are a woman, particularly a woman of a certain age, you've heard that many women object to be calling "ma'am," and you probably know why. If you aren't a woman of a certain age or if you are a man, perhaps What Do You Mean You Hate Being Called "Ma'am?" will be enlightening.

Now many Medium writers publish there every day. I've often seen articles there explaining how various writers write articles in just three hours and either immediately publish them themselves or find a Medium publication to do it. I did, I think, three drafts of the "Ma'am" humor piece and submitted it to two non-Medium sites where it was rejected. Slackjaw suggested some edits before accepting it, which I had no objection to. Working with Alex at Slackjaw makes me feel as if I'm working in a comedy writers' room, which I enjoy.

I will say that the first draft that was rejected elsewhere came off as much more of a humorous argumentative essay with material about old white guys who run the patriarchy wanting women to believe we need to keep them and all their buddies in a constant state of arousal and women accepting that about themselves, thus leading them to believe the word "ma'am" is an indication of having aged out of desirability instead of an indication that a woman has achieved personal power. Yeah, there was, perhaps, some strident feminism in that. When it was rejected, I needed to edit it down in order to submit it elsewhere, which led me to strengthening the narrative voice and focusing, focusing, focusing.

What's Coming Next?

This was the third piece of writing I've submitted and had accepted for publication in less than a month.  However, they were all started last summer, except for Dinner at Shirley Farr's, which was started 20 years ago. I hope to get a few more pieces written, submitted, and published by the end of the year, but I have nothing actually started right now.

We'll see what next week brings.


Saturday, October 19, 2024

Once Again, Bringing Books To Readers

Pumpkin people, in case you couldn't tell.
It's been a while since I've featured a children's author or a children's book or, I think, any kind of in-person author appearance here. You all know how I love Zoom. But I was at Pumpkintown USA today, which in this part of Connecticut is a big deal. I'm not being sarcastic. We love Pumpkintown in these parts. While I was walking around, I was reminded of a blog post I did around nine years ago, Getting Books Out Into The World, about Connecticut author Sandra Horning, who did a signing at Pumpkintown, as well as two other nontraditional sites, to promote a pumpkin picture book. No sooner did I start thinking about her, then what did I see but another author doing a book signing!

Peggy Schaedler, author, not pumpkin person

Author Peggy Schaedler was there supporting a series of books she's written about characters based on Pumpkintown characters. She's doing a number of weekend appearances there. Now, given that her books involve Pumpkintown it makes a great deal of sense that she should be making appearances there. Nonetheless, years ago you wouldn't have seen someone like her at a place like this, just as you wouldn't have seen someone like Sandra Horning there. They would have been at a bookstore or library.

Times have changed.

In large part, this is due to self-publishing. There are far more books being self-published than bookstores can absorb, the main reason why few self-published books are featured there. All writers, but particularly those who self-publish, are becoming more and more creative and working harder and harder to find ways to take their books to readers, since readers can't come to their books in bookstores 

Last year, for instance, I saw author Jo Ann Burgh at a porchfest. Many thanks to her. She promoted her appearance at a Facebook group I belong to, which brought me to the porchfest. Turns out, I love porchfests. Really, many thanks. I went back this year.

I am now a member of another Facebook group, Connecticut Authors and Their Readers Meeting Place, where I see authors posting about appearances at bars, vineyards, and breweries, among other places. These are often group appearances, meaning someone has not only approached these places about bringing their books in, but done some administrative work so a number of authors could come in. One Connecticut author who posts there and has had quite a bit of attention for her first book and has written a second says the bulk of her sales are made through these kinds of appearances.

These people, like Peggy Schaedler, are spending enormous amounts of time on marketing in a very real boots on the ground way.  Best wishes to all of them. But as I told Peggy today when I met her at Pumpkintown, I just don't want to work this hard. Yes, I am a little bit ashamed. But not enough to make the effort she and all these people are making. 



Friday Done List

Next week won't be as productive as this week, but Zen tells me not to think about that. Stay in this week...just as long as I can. In fact, this is being posted on Saturday. That's how long I stayed in this week.

Goal 1. Adult Short Stories, Essays, and Humor

  • Dinner at Shirley Farr's House was published at The Memoirist, I think on Tuesday evening.
  • I received a rejection on a humor piece.
  • I resubmitted the humor piece elsewhere.
  • I worked with the editor of the humor site, and the new piece will be accepted as soon as I resubmit it with changes.
  • I registered for a OCWW workshop, but went biking yesterday instead of Zooming the workshop. I have the link to the recording and a week to use it.

Goal 3. Community Building, Marketing, and Branding

  • Promoted Dinner at Shirley Farr's House.
  • Did a blog post about Dinner at Shirley Farr's House. Will try to promote that this evening.
  • Got an idea from another Medium writer relating to creating pinned Medium posts of boosted articles. So I did that.
  • Saw another Medium writer suggest creating indexes of Medium work and pinning them to our Medium home page. So I'm working on that.

Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Another Story Behind A Story

Farr House as it still looked when I ate dinner there.
The Memoirist, a Medium publication that is new to me, just published my memoir Eating at Shirley
Farr's House
in which I write about very much enjoying a restaurant in a mansion I later learned was once owned by someone who might not have been happy about me being there.

Once again, there is an interesting story beyond the story in the story.

In the Beginning


This memoir began as an essay for the one graduate course I took more than twenty years ago, an essay writing course at the University of Connecticut taught by Sam Pickering. Now, Pickering is the author of a few books of essays, but you can't find much about him on-line. Given the little I know of him from that class, I am not surprised. He did not seem to be an Internet-embracing kind of guy. At that point, none of the historical material was in the essay. The essay was about a local rube (me) who managed to get into a wealthy person's house by way of the restaurant someone had opened in it after her death, enjoy the place, and then it became even more of a wealthy person's place, ruining my bliss.

The History Involved


To make a long story short(er), the history involved in this story relates to the eugenics movement in the early twentieth century. There were eugenics fans all over the U.S, and the world, since some draw a line between American eugenics and the Nazis. You don't need to know much to think, Gee whiz, don't these things sound kind of similar? The Nazi connection may be why I never heard of eugenics while I was in high school or college, where I was a history minor. Even though I was in Vermont, which definitely was definitely up to its neck in eugenics. Who wants to have been involved with something with possible Holocaust connections?

What Does Eugenics Have to Do with Me Eating Sticky Buns in a Mansion Turned Restaurant?


Well, it turns out the Shirley Farr of My Dinner at Shirley Farr's was active in Vermont's eugenics movement. How active, you ask? Go ahead, ask. She funded what was known as the Vermont Eugenics Survey for eleven years. She spent between fifty and sixty thousand dollars on it back in the nineteen twenties and thirties when fifty to sixty thousand dollars was real money. 

This survey studied a number of generations of families someone had identified as having issues a society didn't want to encourage, issues eugenicists believed were genetic and could be stopped  immediately if these people weren't allowed to reproduce. A number of these families happened to be poor, happened to be Abenakis, or happened to be French Canadian. 

Because, you know, nothing goes wrong in white anglo saxon Protestant families. Absolutely nothing.

Now, I didn't learn anything about the eugenics movement and Shirley Farr until I decided to look her up on-line either while I was writing the original essay or thereafter. And even then, it took a while for me, a second-generation American on my father's French-Canadian side to go, "Wait. Gail. Isn't it odd you were eating dinner in that woman's house? And you took your kids there?"

Still More to the Story!!!


So that was going on in my head, off and on, over the last twenty years. But I did nothing with it because I had books to write that wouldn't sell and humor writing to get started on.

Then earlier this year I decided to start cleaning my massive professional files. My plan was to save anything I thought I could still do something with and toss the rest. I didn't get far, because I found some undergraduate writing that I used for a humor piece and this graduate material about Shirley Farr.

And the rest was doing research to get specific info on Farr, revising to create a little bit of a braided format, and finding an appropriate illustration.

Now I'm done.

The University of Vermont has a great deal of information about the eugenics movement in Vermont. A great deal. So much

  


Tuesday, October 15, 2024

Time Management Tuesday: Procrastibaking Is A Thing And Can Illustrate Attractive Aspects Of Procrastination

I'd seen the term procrastibaking a few times over the last couple of years but just thought it was a joke. Until a week ago Sunday. It sure looks real to me, and I also think it illustrates the four differences between procrastivity/productive procrastination and more demanding tasks described by J. Russell Ramsay in Why the ADHD Brain Chooses the Less Important Task--And How CBT Improves Prioritization Skills in ADDitude.

First Off, Procrastibaking


Articles on procrastibaking, like The Joys of 'Procrastibaking' to Avoid Real Work by Christina Ianzinto at AARP tend to treat it benignly. The AARP article was about a new cookbook, so, yeah, I can see that. In this case, procrastibaking is portrayed as a stress reliever. While Why Work When You Can Procrastinate by Julia Moskin at WRAL News includes some material from psychology professor Tim Pychyl on how procrastination, itself, is "one of the few situations in which people consistently make choices that are demonstrably bad, " over all the tone for procrastibaking is cheery.

Since I've mentioned Tim Pychyl's name, I'm just going to remind everyone that in his book The Procrastinator's Digest A Concise Guide to Solving the Procrastination Puzzle, he says that procrastination has a specific definition within psychology. True procrastination "is the voluntary delay of an intended action despite the knowledge that this delay may harm the individual in terms of the task performance or even just how the individual feels about the task or him or herself. Procrastination is a needless voluntary delay."

So I guess procrastibaking is that with brownies.

My Personal Procrastibaking Case Study


What was supposed to happen on Sunday, October 6:


I had two tasks planned that would improve my upcoming work week.

  •  I was going to fold and take care of my clean clothes in the laundry room. I was going to do some of the ironing that has been waiting down there since last winter. We're talking only my clothes. Over the last few years, I've turned into that person who lives out of the clean clothes hamper, which is odd because I wasn't that person when I was washing, drying, folding, and taking care of laundry for four people. But that's neither here nor there. I was going to get my clean clothes dealt with so I wouldn't have to spend time dealing with it on days when I wanted to work.
  • I was also going to do some research to support a minor part of an essay I've been rewriting. That would make the writing of that essay during the week go so much faster, because not only would the research be done, it would have been simmering in my brain for a while, which is always a good thing.

What really happened on Sunday, October 6:

I realized I had ten eggs that were going to expire on Monday, October 7. Even though I knew I could be loosie-goosie with expiration dates for eggs, I spent the afternoon of Sunday, October 6 baking
  • rosemary sea salt bread
  • drop biscuits
  • and hermit bars
I bake gluten free, and gluten free baking sucks up eggs. I had only three left at the end of the day. I used them for lunch the next day, in case you're concerned. 

All the time I was doing this, I knew I was proving the point Ramsay makes in his ADDitude article, but I did it anyway. Mainly for this blog post. But still.

What Does My Procrastibaking Experience Illustrate?


J. Russell Ramsay says there are four differences between the small, unimportant tasks ADHD brains (and I'm going to argue other brains, too) select over more critical ones they put off. I ticked every one of them off with my work choice that Sunday.

  1. Manual focus, meaning the tasks selected are often physical rather than mentally demanding. Certainly, baking was less mentally demanding than research. There's a lot of material on what I was writing about, and I don't find it terribly well organized. I was not running toward that task with open arms. 
  2. Familiar script, meaning something you've done before and will find easier to do. I have been baking for a looong time. Additionally, two of the three things I made I've made a number of times. Sure, I know how to fold and iron clothes. But obviously I don't do it anywhere near as often.
  3. Time frame, meaning a definite and predictable time frame. Recipes are all about time. How long was it going to take me to iron those clothes and find the little bit I needed in that research? I didn't know. 
  4. Task progress, meaning a clear beginning, middle, and end. Again, what clearer beginning, middle, and end can you ask for than a recipe? I didn't expect to finish the ironing, even if I'd started it. Also, in this particular case I had the end date with the eggs expiring the next day. It was not at all difficult to convince myself that I was working on a deadline.


What Can We Take From All This?


For one thing, beware of procrastibaking! It is not benign and cheerful! If you're truly procrastibaking, it means you're not doing something more important. What is it and how are you going to address it?

For another, when you see yourself choosing to do something that doesn't address an important task waiting for you, ask yourself if you're choosing the lesser "work" because it's less mentally demanding, familiar, has a predictable time frame, and has a definite beginning, middle, and end.  A positive answer to any of those could convince you to take another course of action.


If you're wondering if I ever took care of the clothes and did the research I needed to do, the answer is no to the clothes and yes to the research. I could have taken a few minutes this past Sunday to do some work in the laundry room, but now I have a lot of apples to use up. I made an apple upside down cake instead.